Happy mothers, Happy families in 21st century

Preamble

Sometimes, when I think I am having good writing skills and suddenly someone told me to write about mother. For the particular moment, I started doubting my skills as writing about her is not just going through the books, internet resources and elaborate some paragraphs based on the lines picked from these resources. To write about her, you are required to feel like mother and to feel like her first you need to be a mother. I don’t know, exactly from where to start? But I am still making efforts to write, what I observed through my mother and the society…….

Being a Mother

To be a mother is not a simple task as it is not having certain defined responsibilities and just you have to do it. Being a mother is to first nurture her child in her womb for a long duration of 9 months. She bears the pain and then rejoice, when the child comes out to see the universe. She needs to do all that which is required in shaping her child to be the best child of the universe. Being a mother is to take care of her child’s necessities first. She feels happy with her child’s happiness and sad with her child’s sadness.

When her children grown up, she feels super happy with their achievements and accomplishments. Even she forgot her own pain of not accomplishing / achieving because of all those responsibilities, which she has done to make her child a super hero.  When her children gift her something, she always says such gifts as over expenses and told them to fulfil the necessities of themselves first. When her children become angry with her, still she loves them and always thinks of their well being first. No matter, her children’s loves or hates her, she always thinks of her children’s wellbeing because her children are her super heroes.

Her care continues………

When her children are not with her due to job or other reasons, she always asks them such type of questions first;

Have you eaten properly?

What you have eaten?

Are you well? Do you need something? let me know, I will tell your father to fulfil the same.

and many more such questions……….

And when they come home after long duration, she always tries to prepare the foods of their choice. Even after the marriage of her children’s, when it is understood that now there is someone to take care of them, she still cares for them.

“No matter how much we have grown and becomes old, still, we cannot match the aura of being a mother……….“

She as a super power……

For the children’s like us, she is a super woman. Whenever we feel troubled, we always find some power in her blessings, which makes us free from trouble. She has always been a torch bearer for us. Moreover, in the times of difficulties, she always blessed me and told that “there is nothing to mourn over past, learn from it, live in present and improve your future”.

My view for working mothers

“Even, being in the twenty first century, I couldn’t understand that why only those women are tagged as working women, who are working professionally. Because, I have never seen my mother idle. She has always worked and continuously working. The only difference is that she works for the happiness and prosperity of her family. So, for me, every mother is working mother“.

Conclusion

As it was typical for me to start for writing over mother, it is also typical for me to finish the same as there are countless thoughts in my mind to write over the same.

Finally, I can only say that to be a mother is not so easy. Moreover, having her in our life is the blessing of the almighty. Mere presence of her in the home makes Happy Home.

Here, I feel not so comfortable in wishing mother’ day as I believe that in order to match the contribution of her to the society, one day is not sufficient. Still, Happy Mother’s Day.

Dedicated to my mother and eldest sister, who is no less than my mother in nurturing me. Thanks almighty for blessing me with them.

Happy Family

My thoughts in this article are not for letting down the importance of father in the family. In simple words, if She is the resource manager then fathers are the resource provider. Stay tuned to updates from us on Being a Father…. on Father’s Day.

One special salute to those, who are fulfilling the responsibilities of being a mother and father both.

Thanks

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Disclaimer: The views presented in this article are the author’s own views. The views are presented here just for the purpose of information. These views are not meant to harm any one’s belief / thoughts.